Why Men Are Called The Bridegroom On The Wedding Day
This post on WHY MEN ARE CALLED BRIDEGROOM ON THE WEDDING DAY is a very good information for marriage couples especially believers. Marriage is ordained by God to be a relationship of rest and peace, I mean a home and heaven on earth but lack of understanding or ignorance has made it the opposite.
Women of a truth are weaker vessels but not in the sense of physical strength because there are some women that are physically stronger than some men but all women are weaker vessels in the area of the way they think. Women are just like babies even though that they don't accept it so but in behavior and reasoning that is how they are. The earlier the men understand this and treat them that way the better. Little children are weak naturally, they don't think of or know the implications of what they demand, want or do.
The same with women. Children are easily deceived, the same with women. Children don't care about the consequences of their actions, the same thing with women. Children are always after what they want now, the same thing with women. Children are after pleasure, comfort and easy life, the same thing with women. Children are after sweet and attractive things, the same thing with women.
As children should not take decision without the approval of their parents, so women should not take decision without the approval of their husbands should. As parents are not expecting much or anything from their little children so men should not expect much from their women especially those that are newly married or just about 5 years of marriage.( But this does not mean that you as a Christian wife should not do the right thing the word of God has made clear that you should do because much should not be expected of you as you are under training and nurturing.)
As children should be under control before they mess up things so God designed that women should be under the control of men for them not to mess up things. WOMEN ARE VERY GOOD VESSELS BUT THEIR GOOD MANIFEST MOSTLY WHEN THEY ARE UNDER CONTROL AND DIRECTION OF MEN.
The major reason why women are called weaker vessels is because they are easily deceived, captured, manipulated and controlled by the devil to achieve devilish purposes and this is why Satan always passes through them to get the men to do whatever he wants. The decision of Eve brought the whole human race into trouble till today, the decision of Sarah brought the Islamic world that has been killing Christians till today. It was not Ahab that wanted Elijah to die but Jezebel who also killed Naboth, Herod didn't want to kill John the Baptist but Herodian demanded his head Just to mention but a little.
SATAN DOESN'T COME DIRECT TO MEN BUT MUST PASS THROUGH THE WOMAN ( WHO IS A WEAKER VESSEL) TO GET THE MEN TO DO WHAT HE WANTS. As children needs special care, attention, patience, sacrifice, etc to be nurtured and be raised up to maturity and fruitful age so women need too by men.So just as parents are not expecting much from children as they are to be raised so men should not expect so much from their wives but must raise them with patience to their taste. May God grant you understanding. For prayers and counseling for any problem in your marriage, call me on +234 7015355297. God bless you.
