Selfishness The Major Thing That Destroys Marriage
The saying that SELFISHNESS DESTROYS MARRIAGE is undisputed trurh well told but let me just made this very clear to whoever that will care to hear . In a marriage especially that of believers ( that there was no mistake of marrying a satanic agent of either man or woman), marriage should be a thing to enjoy add not just a thing to endure. But the reason why many marriages of believers are still being too much managed and endured is because of ignorance or lack of understanding.
Marriage a symbiosis relationship ( in Biology) where both parties depends on and benefits from each other. Again, marriage is like a house and in a house, you have the roof that covers the wall or pillars while the wall or pillars carry the roof. The roof covers or shelters the wall and everything in the house against the sun, rain,etc ( This is provision, care and protection expected from the man) while wall or pillars carry the roof ( this is submission or total obedience to serve expected from the woman and children) and the roof cannot stand without the wall and the wall cannot be covered and protected without the roof.
So they are interdependent on each other. None can do without each other but selfishness makes the man or woman think they can get on to survive and succeed without each. So it is all about co operation because one hand cannot tie a parcel but it takes two hands to tie a parcel. When the man and the woman understand that they need and cannot do or succeed without each other, then they will see the need to agree, unite, be open, co operate , share , pull resources together to survive and succeed.
SELFISHNESS IS JUST ONE OF THE CHILDREN OF HATRED WHICH IS LACK OF LOVE, NO MARRIAGE WILL BE ENJOYED OR PROGRESSIVE WITHOUT LOVE FROM BOTH PARTNERS. The man ( as a roof /shelter ) needs love, to love and care for ( shelter /cover) the wife and children while the woman ( as the wall or pillar) needs love to carry ( submit to and totally obey ) the man sexually, financially and in everything in line with the written and spoken word of God. By God,s grace,I have taken time for years to meditate on the reason why many marriages especially that of believers are still being managed and endured, then the Holy Ghost gave me this revelation ( understanding).
SO I AM BOLD TELL YOU THAT MARRIAGE ESPECIALLY THAT OF BELIEVERS CAN WORK AND CAN BE ENJOYED IF THE COUPLE HAS THE UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT MARRIAGE IS AND PLAY THEIR PARTS BY LOVE AND ALSO IF ONE ONE OF THE COUPLE DIDN'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF MARRYING A SATANIC AGENT ( THAT CLAIMED TO BE A BROTHER OR SISTER) THAT WAS PURELY PACKAGED AND SENT TO DESTROY AND WAS AS A TRAP AND ONE MISTAKENLY BROUGHT SUCH IN FOR MARRIAGE.
In case you married correctly but things have not been going well as it should, then begin from today to operate with this understanding and in no distant time, you will begin to see positive changes that will surprise you because knowledge is power because you can have whatever thing you want in life if you have the knowledge or idea. May God grant us understanding and help us in Jesus name. In case you are having problems in your marriage and you don't know what to do or you need prayers and counseling, call me on +234 7015355297 or email me on [email protected]. God bless you.
